pensées et sentiments

Haha...here I am blogging about the experiences that I have with these people. The 5 "W"s I would say and certainly another blog that will cause you to be flabbergasted and entertained.

1) Weirdos

2) What's what - the gossip mongers

3) Wanderers

4) Workaholics

5) "Why" people



The Weirdos

The definition: An odd, eccentric, or unconventional person.

In all my 28 years of life, I think the place that I encountered the most weirdos is in this current company. Somehow I feel that those people who have spent most of their lives here are odd. Probably they have already submerged themselves into the culture which is so conformed and restricted. I have come to a stage where I can't stand anyone of them. Some have pretty weird mood swings, one moment they are nice and the next minute they behave as if you've massacred their whole family. Some try to be nice but in a fake way, forging their smiles the whole day but deep down inside, they harbour thoughts which are destructive towards you. Will I one day be like that? Having turned into someone who will eventually label me as one weirdo. It takes like discernment and experience to locate who's OK to trust and who's not. The who's who and who's not. Although they behave oddly but they definitely add a pinch of excitement into your life. Most of the time driving you up the great wall of china and stretching that capacity within you.

The What's What A.K.A The Gossip Mongers
The Definition: Analytical, negative and excessively talkative and nosey person.

These people dangerously lurk everywhere and poke into the "secret" and private lives of others. They tend to gossip excessively about what is going on, who's with who and what is what, even when they know little about it. Having been in the limelight for so long and wanting to know what's what, they will seek out new preys to target everyday, causing some of their preys to sink into depression or even suicidal when situations turn from bad to worse. They have a niche in being mendacious about everything. They revolutionised and evangelised the world with their gossipping and they make the best gossip magazine reporters or paparazzis. One common skill that they all have is to makeup stories to make their gossips more entertaining, but they all are able to capture their audience and make them believe that all these stories are true. When talking, they use big elaborations and actions to bring the message across.

The Wanderers
The definition: loner, often seen wandering off into space and being in a world of their own.

They often hide in one corner of the room or can also be lonely in a group of people. They can be classified as emotionally shut down in their lives, unable to express themselves. Often classified as those rejected and unwanted in the society and in the long run, they themselves have come to accept the fact that they are unwanted. Some can be extremely dangerous as you would not know what they will do when they really release what has been harbouring in them for so long. They have very little friends or even no friends.

The Workaholics
The definition: always seen fulfilling their work to the best, even when it cost them their lives.

They work and work and work even when they themselves already have a wonderful materialistic life. All their lives, they've given their hopes and dreams into their job to the extend that they forsake their families and friends. They have no social life of their own and life revolves around their colleagues and work. From weekdays to weekends, they are often seen working and do not have a work life balance. They have the money but do not have people to share it with. Can be seen working 80 hours or more per week. They are the highflyers of the society and the only thing that they splurge on is branded, from prada to chanel. Work is never child's play to them. It's serious business and they live work and breathe work. They are never relaxed and cannot take their mind off work. Death at a young age sometimes sits on them.

The Why's people
The definition: often asks questions and they are very knowledgable in the wrong way.

They ask questions everyday, every minute of their lives, questioning how the earth was formed and why male and female are created in a different way. From life science to philosophy, from things that are dead or alive, to how many molecules does the world have. These people ask and ask and never are tired to seek for knowledge. Often seen as those with high intellectuals and unable to hold a normal conversation with people. People shun away from them, fearing that they are too aggressive in their explaination about things. They are very boring people and always want to talk about themselves or what they have learnt. The best way to avoid them is to tape their conversation down and play it back to them, letting them have a taste of their own medicine. This method can be seen as a backfiring one as they may have misinterpreted that you love their companionship and conversation. Do not use it unless you are so confident about it.

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Seriously don't know what I am doing the whole day... it seems like the last few hours take the longest to pass you by... looking forward to meeting a long "lost" friend for dinner... Have lots of catching up with him today.... We've known each other for 10 yrs but it seems like friendship is drawing apart, not as close as before. Maybe it's due to our busy schedules and that we ourselves have different friends now. It's been so long since I've met up with my pal... Been thinking that will friendships really last a lifetime? I think I have to learn how to be more pro-active in maintaining a friendship. Normally, I'm the passive one, the one that doesn't take actions or do anything to keep a relationship going. Probably, I'm a loner. I love being alone sometimes, but no man's an island.... I seriously need to maintain the friends that I've grown so close to in the past few months. The laughters and the sadness that we've shared, is enough to bring this friendship to a long lasting one. Friends are important in life so that we don't puncture along the way and we constantly have the support in life adventures, ups and downs. I love the gals in my life and hope that we are friends forever!!!! WE WILL BE FRIENDS FOREVER!!!! heee....

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I need a laptop so that I can quit blogging in the office!!!!
Planning to get a Sony Vaio... :p Damn, there's so many things to buy sia.... :x $$ just keeps flying away... faster and faster...

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Damn...i'm so emotional lately....and I don't even know what is the reasons... :(

I need a hug!!!
I need a kiss and lots of encouragements from you gals!!! :)

Thanks for enduring me these days.... I'm having an awfully crappy mood...

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I realised that the more I am stressed, the more shopping sprees and exercising I go. Bank is nearly to the empty stage. I am poor and happy, but is this an illness? Now I'm totally exhausted in the bank and somemore need to save up for bkk trip.... Money is never enough. Sick and tired of the stresses...and the only way is to shop.... :x

AM I SICK????

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Dearest Joanne, thank you for your delicious dried mangoes... :) MUACK*

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This is the question that I've been asking myself since the first day I ever stepped into Shimano. It's not that I don't like the job here or the environment, but sometimes it's the people that makes the job sucky. At times, I've been labelled "stupid" or "of no use". It's hurting you know, but life still goes on here. I've got my own mouth to feed and also parents who are aging to feed too. Probably, it's not the best but at least I've got a job. But is this really what I want in life? Near the 30 yrs of life without any achievements in my career path? What I do really want to do is to own a small cafe or boutique, meeting people from all the walks of life, talking to them, listening to them and making them feel happy with the food that I cook. A place where people can be themselves and enjoy life. I want a job where I am able to do customer service, probably front line, meeting people, talking to them...etc. For me in a job, interacting with people is very important. My friends have been asking me how come I am still able to stick to a job with minimal pay and nasty person, although the majority of them are nice and friendly and we work as a team.... but that only one, spoils the whole beautiful picture. I think humans tend to think negatively irregardless to the positive things that happen in their lives...

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